Girl Love - Lesbian Kiss by ~CPainterArts on deviantART
I ran across a wonderful blog post on Huffington today from Candace Walsh. The link is below, and I encourage you to read it thoroughly and thoughtfully. She left her husband and "switched teams" and explains the things about being a lesbian that totally rock and also addresses the things about giving in to the wants and needs for, as she terms it, "sweet saphic action," that aren't exactly as you might have thought. So that we get five things about why its better to be with a woman, if you have lived all your life hetero, like cuddling, and the five things to, well, not count aside from the fact that the toilet seat will probably always be down. She starts the post with "If I were only lesbian," the age old question many of us asked or still do.
My favorite passage is (of course) about the lesbian sex.
Sex: Imagine sex without that inescapable timeline. You know, the one that has to do with the man's erection, how long he can sustain it, if you can climax before him, and then...lights out.
I know, this is a very reductive scenario. Lots of men are like Sting. They don't orgasm for hours...it's awesome...it's all about your pleasure. But for the rest of you who do resonate with this description, it's really wonderful to have long, open-ended, languorous sex. Instead of the orgasm being like a period at the end of a sentence, the sentence itself is a run-on, and the orgasms are commas. Not that we can't have quickies. We can do that, too.
Enjoy the entire post here.
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